How to advise friend KCed? by Vietnamese girl?

Oopsx2010 · #1 18-04-2010, 10:47 PM

My friend in his late 20s seems to be KCed by a Vietnamese girl met in pub. The girl was one of those freelance going around the pub servicing the tables.

This friend of mine, W, is a decent guy. It was his 1st visit with friends to such pub. On the night that W met the girl, the girl told him it was her 5th day in SG and she didn't like what she was doing. They were close that night but didn't have sex.

2 days later, the girl called W to inform him that she wanna quit and stop going to the pub. But she only has $150 with her and she is staying in a hotel that cost $80/night. She didn't have enough money to pay for the accomodation. Hearing that, W gave her $500 to settle her hotel bill and expenses. After that, W gave another $500 for her to purchase air-ticket to return to Vietnam.

On the day of departure, the girl declared that she loves W and wants to stay with him. W was touched, so he asked the girl to stay and spent the night with her in the hotel.

W told me about this incident because he is in confused state... some of his experienced friends told him to leave the girl but W feels that this girl is different. W is asking me to meet the girl, then let him know if he is being used as carrot head. I rejected as I'm have no experience to differentiate whether the girl is genuine to W or not.

Bros & sis, would appreciate for your advice...

sad83 · #2 18-04-2010, 11:16 PM

bro,if ur frenz did not gave her e lst $500,do u tik she will still tell ur frenz she love him? this is a poison trap,i tik wat u can do is to pray tat e gal got a better target n let ur frenz off.. IMHO,most of them camehere to work n at e same time c got any carrot head a not. i was in e same situation as W 2years ago n i ended $10k poorer. but good tik is e gal is now still with me even tho i am a poor chap now. till now i still suspect tat my gf was to chop me when we lst met but maybe as we go along,she eventually fall in love wif me. maybe i am lucky tat she still wan me as i got no $. she did her part to help me borrow $1k plus from her frenz n relatives when my car get towed. she told me b4 tat most of viet gal are liars n out to get $ but of cos not all. maybe can ask W to try playing e poor guy role n c if e gal will distant herself fr him. hope my info helps..

Super White · #3 18-04-2010, 11:29 PM

Whats a decent guy going to those places getting close with a bar girl anyway?

tikokeong · #4 19-04-2010, 12:07 AM

TS,

Tell your friend to inform the girl that he have no $ to eat now wan to borrow $ see she will give anot. where got girl come here and stay in hotel? who is going to belive that.All those girl know where to get cheap place to stay before there come here they have friend to tell them. Best is to wake up your friend idea don't let him fall deeper.

mg8888 · #5 19-04-2010, 12:22 AM

Ask your friend for hotel checkout receipt .

skystone · #6 19-04-2010, 08:11 AM

Everybody always think that the girl we met is different but when the music stop and there's a big hole in the pocket,we then wake up and realised that the end result is the same..

KangTuo · #7 19-04-2010, 08:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Oopsx2010

My friend in his late 20s seems to be KCed by a Vietnamese girl met in pub.

W told me about this incident because he is in confused state... some of his experienced friends told him to leave the girl but W feels that this girl is different.

no matter how experience a person is, some day he will meet his match...
hope your friend know when is the time to step back before falling too deep.

KangTuo · #8 19-04-2010, 08:41 AM

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Originally Posted by sad83

but good tik is e gal is now still with me even tho i am a poor chap now.

good for you... it is difficult to find a really good vn gal among the WL

alan0338 · #9 19-04-2010, 11:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Oopsx2010

My friend in his late 20s seems to be KCed by a Vietnamese girl met in pub.
2 days later, the girl called W to inform him that she wanna quit and stop going to the pub. But she only has $150 with her and she is staying in a hotel that cost $80/night. She didn't have enough money to pay for the accomodation. Hearing that, W gave her $500 to settle her hotel bill and expenses. After that, W gave another $500 for her to purchase air-ticket to return to Vietnam.
W feels that this girl is different. W is asking me to meet the girl, then let him know if he is being used as carrot head.

bro TS. your friend doesnt seems like he get kced, the answer is he is already gotten kced. then seriously, dun think a vietnamese gal will stay in a hotel $80 when she can stay in cheaper ones thru recommendation from her sisters working in singapore. your experienced friends will know that actually.

then your friend ask you to meet the gal to let him know whether he is a carrot head or not? its actually useless since he already get kced, cos he will find numerous excuses for her even if he knows she is bonking other guys. best remedy would be like some bros here say, stop pampering her, and be determined not to give in anymore, let your friend see the true colors of nite life since you said he is a newbie. let him gain some experience, its good for him too.

TELL YOUR FRIEND TO BE FIRM... good luck to your friend.

Ichigo_Kurosaki · #10 19-04-2010, 03:33 PM

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Originally Posted by skystone

Everybody always think that the girl we met is different.....wake up and realised that the end result is the same..

Hahaha..Bro skystone, not only different, the girls are also with Heart of Gold (pun intended)

Anyway, good luck and all the best for TS. Rare case indeed.

Tedesco · #11 19-04-2010, 05:28 PM

Another sucker falls for the typical con story.

sad83 · #12 19-04-2010, 09:18 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

good for you... it is difficult to find a really good vn gal among the WL

ya i tik i am but i still dun encourage cos its like if ther is a tray of 20apples n 19 of them are poisonous,do u tik anybody would try to pick e good one wherby all appear e same? i doubt so...

naemlo · #13 19-04-2010, 09:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Oopsx2010

Bros & sis, would appreciate for your advice...

Tell your friend straight at his face, he is a fool to believe in all those craps. If he accepts your statement and leaves that ger then all is well. But if he think you are an asshole then you just have to wish him all the best.

Xgenre · #14 19-04-2010, 10:10 PM

Sometimes, the only way to wake someone up is through pain. What's the most painful thing you can do? Show him the truth cos the truth hurts.

Since you know this girl, why not go down to the pub and find this girl? Offer her some money to sleep with her. Just tell her whatever happens is between you and her. Then when you are in the hotel with her, use her phone to call your friend. Rub it in by saying something like 'Man, you are right. Her pussy is really addictive. Best $100 I've spent this year.' Hearing your voice while seeing her number on his caller-id should be hurtful enough.

Whether you really need to have sex with her is optional. I know some guys feel that we shouldn't bed our buddies's gfs but surely a WL who KC your friend shouldn't be counted as a gf right? Afterall, you are trying to rid your friend of this KC right?

KangTuo · #15 19-04-2010, 10:22 PM

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Originally Posted by sad83

ya i tik i am but i still dun encourage cos its like if ther is a tray of 20apples n 19 of them are poisonous,do u tik anybody would try to pick e good one wherby all appear e same? i doubt so...

do you think there is anyone trying to keep that 1 apple from turning toooo bad and poisonous?

it is an uphill task...