Help- I can't lie to women!!!!!!

SirDennis · #1 19-06-2010, 01:06 AM

You guys have read all the forum threads where the successful guys, the "sifu's" are those who can string along several girls at the same time, say and do the right things while not meaning an ounce of anything they say which might sound vaguely caring ie they act heartlessly, but can hide their intentions very well. Since this has been going on since time began, it's normal behaviour.

But for me, I can't fake any of this. If I know I'm not interested in a girl, I won't even try. I feel really bad about even thinking of hurting a girl that way. So I can't bring myself to look up PH maids and try to get a fuck from them and dump them.

Is there something wrong with me for having a conscience? Is there a way I can act so thick skinned and play the game so the devil on my left shoulder wins over the angel on my right?

longwinter · #2 19-06-2010, 01:55 AM

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Originally Posted by SirDennis

You guys have read all the forum threads where the successful guys, the "sifu's" are those who can string along several girls at the same time, say and do the right things while not meaning an ounce of anything they say which might sound vaguely caring ie they act heartlessly, but can hide their intentions very well. Since this has been going on since time began, it's normal behaviour.

But for me, I can't fake any of this. If I know I'm not interested in a girl, I won't even try. I feel really bad about even thinking of hurting a girl that way. So I can't bring myself to look up PH maids and try to get a fuck from them and dump them.

Is there something wrong with me for having a conscience? Is there a way I can act so thick skinned and play the game so the devil on my left shoulder wins over the angel on my right?

bro, not just u...for me, i also cant too, i know and see friends who play around with girls, lieing to them, taking advantage of them, cheating them of lust and even their $$$...sumtime i see liao, i do feel like being heartless and cold to be like them..

but at the end of the day, i still cant do it...

well some guys are born out to be players but some are not. So just take it easy..

there is nothing wrong with u.

uobboss · #3 19-06-2010, 02:58 AM

If its any consolation .

Those shifu learn from their mistakes and improve .

There's a chinese proverb

To move a mountain is easy

To change ones character is hard

Karma

Apple&Orange · #4 19-06-2010, 05:17 AM

this one need boss to reply......

is this really ur situation or is this a parody?

Calvary · #5 19-06-2010, 06:53 AM

Don't think of it as lying, try looking at it as concealing/withholding the truth

SirDennis · #6 19-06-2010, 09:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Apple&Orange

this one need boss to reply......

is this really ur situation or is this a parody?

It's hardly a matter of life or death, but it's something I've always wondered about. Should a guy really be more ruthless and dishonest? Do I need to be fixed?

Big Sexy · #7 19-06-2010, 09:15 AM

no, keep it that way..

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Originally Posted by SirDennis

Is there something wrong with me for having a conscience?

PuTonRen · #8 19-06-2010, 09:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Big Sexy

no, keep it that way..

Yes! Brother, keep it that way.

Please do not envy others for being able to string many girl friends together, mostly by telling lies (although not necessary so). I have seen many, and my humble experience tells me that the endings could sometimes be disastrous for the man.

人在做，天在看。

Of course, most working girls lie to earn their living, for which they could have obtained through other means. However, what is the ending for most of them?

My 2 cent worth.

Raymond2006 · #9 19-06-2010, 09:55 AM

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Originally Posted by SirDennis

Is there something wrong with me for having a conscience? Is there a way I can act so thick skinned and play the game so the devil on my left shoulder wins over the angel on my right?

Brudder. No need to lie. Lying can get into hell lots of shit. Just be yourself

Honesty is the best policy.

RealEstateGuy · #10 21-06-2010, 08:32 PM

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Originally Posted by SirDennis

You guys have read all the forum threads where the successful guys, the "sifu's" are those who can string along several girls at the same time, say and do the right things while not meaning an ounce of anything they say which might sound vaguely caring ie they act heartlessly, but can hide their intentions very well. Since this has been going on since time began, it's normal behaviour.

But for me, I can't fake any of this. If I know I'm not interested in a girl, I won't even try. I feel really bad about even thinking of hurting a girl that way. So I can't bring myself to look up PH maids and try to get a fuck from them and dump them.

Is there something wrong with me for having a conscience? Is there a way I can act so thick skinned and play the game so the devil on my left shoulder wins over the angel on my right?

Nothing wrong with what you do brother. You have a good heart. Karma works in mysterious ways and its best not to use a gal for sex. Just not right brother.

SirDennis · #11 25-06-2010, 11:37 AM

I'm quite surprised by so many genuine replies. Appreciate it guys.

Anyone else feel they should be somehow more of a multi girl guy?

dominic7 · #12 27-06-2010, 02:39 PM

the fact that you actually come to a forum to ask how to lie means that you have every intention to do so. dun try to kid yourself and say that you have a conscience.

lying just take practise like everything else. try on stupid women first.

Ichigo_Kurosaki · #13 27-06-2010, 03:54 PM

Bro SirDennis, How are you? I agreed lying to girls is no good. We seldom lie and when we do lie to girls, we sort of want to protect them from the truth. Take for instance, the morning after, when we tell the girls: "Dear, you are much prettier without all that makeup".

Please do not made the same mistake as me years ago, when I asked a woman whom I mistakenly thought was "the chambermaid": "where was the girl with me last night in the room"?

Cheonging101 · #14 28-06-2010, 10:14 AM

Bro, when the truth hurts a whole lot more than the lie, trust me, your conscience would then scream at you to lie all out.

GeMiNiZzzzZzz · #15 28-06-2010, 05:01 PM

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Originally Posted by SirDennis

Is there something wrong with me for having a conscience? Is there a way I can act so thick skinned and play the game so the devil on my left shoulder wins over the angel on my right?

You are absolutely normal ...
I always believe in being humble will lead to you something good..
So if you havent start, then don't do so..
Ladies are meant to be respected, not cheated in any-way.
We are all born equally, so don't think thay guys always have the rights to certain things