Anyone else feels lonely

[Hunkydunky]

Originally Posted by Cssi77

Not sure if any bros out there feel similar but after starting a family, a lot has changed at home. Wife completely focused on the child, no affection towards me, and just always expecting me to do everything and expect nothing in return.

To the world, we look happy. but I feel alone and even after going for counselling, it hasn't improved. Not sure if any of u are in a similar situation

Sometimes men married wrong wife. No choice but suck it up.

I got a friend who paid everything for his renovation and his wife paid nothing. And he did most of the clean up after reno. Even simple thing like washing a cup his wife also want him to do it when he is already very tired from the clean up.

Too many wrong wives around. Best is don't get married. The ladies are too spoilt.

[Bbtt332023]

Originally Posted by Zetyalpha

Agreed. Like 99% are henpecked. I see already also eye sore. A lot are in these forums too, called their wives CO. What a way to live.

Hahahahahahah, omg, I've been in this forum for awhile and never knew what CO is. I knew it's talking about their partner like SO, but never knew what it was, and at that point, I was too embarrassed to ask. Now I get it.....

[Blueflowerhorn]

Originally Posted by Hunkydunky

Sometimes men married wrong wife. No choice but suck it up.

I got a friend who paid everything for his renovation and his wife paid nothing. And he did most of the clean up after reno. Even simple thing like washing a cup his wife also want him to do it when he is already very tired from the clean up.

Too many wrong wives around. Best is don't get married. The ladies are too spoilt.

I agree with this statement, sometimes marry wrong wife will make your life suffer.. Just stay solo and cheong, until you find a really suitable one and settle down... but then again, true colour will only appear after you stay with the person for a certain period... i think it depends on luck..

[homana]

Help I feel that too

[havana]

Originally Posted by Bbtt332023

Hahahahahahah, omg, I've been in this forum for awhile and never knew what CO is. I knew it's talking about their partner like SO, but never knew what it was, and at that point, I was too embarrassed to ask. Now I get it.....

CO means commanding officer if U have been thru army.

[Bbtt332023]

Originally Posted by havana

CO means commanding officer if U have been thru army.

Errr, obviously, based on my post I got it now. When I realise CO was particularly talking about wife, it became obvious to me.

Previously I thought it just meant partner, like wife, gf, fwb, mistress. So, it wasn't obvious then.

[Sexyjo]

Originally Posted by BerryAirlearn

yes, thats why go GL and the various domes. kukuchiao lonely and need to find warm cave

hehe yes... no need to feel lonely again

[airman]

Originally Posted by Bbtt332023

Errr, obviously, based on my post I got it now. When I realise CO was particularly talking about wife, it became obvious to me.

Previously I thought it just meant partner, like wife, gf, fwb, mistress. So, it wasn't obvious then.

Some people also call their wives OC (Officer in Charge) too although it ranks lower than CO.

[KinksHunter]

It sounds like you're going through a challenging time,
and it's important to remember that you're not alone in facing these kinds of feelings.
Many individuals have experienced similar situations and emotions in their relationships after starting a family.
It's not uncommon for the dynamic between partners to shift when a new child enters the picture, as the focus and demands can be overwhelming.

Seeking counseling was a positive step, and while it might not have led to immediate changes,
remember that progress in relationships takes time.
It's essential to maintain open communication with your wife about how you're feeling.
Express your emotions and concerns, but also listen to her perspective to better understand her point of view.

Balancing the demands of parenting, work, and maintaining a healthy relationship can be quite challenging.
It might be helpful to continue counseling and explore strategies together that could improve your connection and balance responsibilities.
Remember that seeking support from friends, family,
or support groups can also provide you with a sense of understanding and camaraderie from those who have faced similar situations.

Every relationship is unique, and there's no one-size-fits-all solution.
But with patience, empathy, and ongoing effort from both partners,
it's possible to work towards a more fulfilling and balanced relationship.

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by Cssi77

Not sure if any bros out there feel similar but after starting a family, a lot has changed at home. Wife completely focused on the child, no affection towards me, and just always expecting me to do everything and expect nothing in return.

To the world, we look happy. but I feel alone and even after going for counselling, it hasn't improved. Not sure if any of u are in a similar situation

been there, moved on, survived like that for more than 15 years.

you will get through it, just find a reason to fight on and get to the next day.

the only easy day was yesterday(truly)

[jos88]

Yes. it happens at certain stage in life but the feeling will pass as time goes.
Perhaps can find some time alone with spouse to rekindle the feeling. Good luck

[Naiseguy94]

Why is it that I always suffer from withdrawal s when i end an overnight session? I love the company and the sex comes last in my mind and heart. I build a rapport with an FL but i want something that's sincere. I sometimes just go through with the sex just because and not because i really want it. I don't want to sounds cheesey but quoting a certain song "We found love in a hopeless place" I mean i really would love to get to know her as a person and not just the person i had sex with because i forked out some money.

[Pictionary]

O.m.g. what talking you? Transfer you to LadyRain, let her properly suck your Yang qi till your pants drop.

So tiring to pave the pavement everyday alone, and let the female readers quietly enjoy these entire procession to much benefit of lustful guys. Dun want to read again, you are a disgrace and brought shame to us guys. I will walk away and avoid even if you walk on this pavement.

[chubbybastard]

Originally Posted by Naiseguy94

Why is it that I always suffer from withdrawal s when i end an overnight session? I love the company and the sex comes last in my mind and heart. I build a rapport with an FL but i want something that's sincere. I sometimes just go through with the sex just because and not because i really want it. I don't want to sounds cheesey but quoting a certain song "We found love in a hopeless place" I mean i really would love to get to know her as a person and not just the person i had sex with because i forked out some money.

Bro, this feeling I know.
But careful kena KC. You will get hooked to her and suffer financially

[dragontank]

Me feeling the same too.
Married but feel lonely.
After i end my affair with my gf abt 8 years ago..
I feel even more lonely..
I can go massage but will not do a FJ.
Cos in my heart.. I know that all these r just a deal without any feelings involved.
So end up go to ktv pubs for drinks and look for viet girls with hugs and kisses..
But still things r amiss..
Guess i am still searching for my lost feelings with my ex...