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Luyao · #16 13-01-2014, 04:55 PM

I have met many such women...like some of our bro said...some I just play along with them..use them and bade them goodbye...while others whom I consider they truly have a genuine insecure complex issue...advise them to seek help and let them go wishing them better luck with their new finds.

Turtle · #17 13-01-2014, 05:08 PM

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Hi Actually, i thought she was very open ,and was she hinting me for some kisses and other stuffs? But i was calmed that day, i did not do any silly stuffs on her but, i had a crush on her. . . .

You sure you belonged here?? Everyone here is waiting here for such opportunity...you virgin? Haha... really wasted lei lei lei....

illusionerx · #18 13-01-2014, 05:27 PM

The problem is she was half drunk, i couldn't take advantage on her in this situation. If the next day she realize that i have done any bad thing to her, and she went to call the police the next day that i raped her how? So i had to have a cool head not to do anything.

bigbrudder · #19 13-01-2014, 05:41 PM

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I just wanna asked about the Bros here if they encounter this kind of woman, would they want or not ? Yes, i have an answer myself, but the Bros here would mind this kind of woman or not? I think to find a person who are in love with each other should not question the other partner with these kind of stupid questions though. They should trust each other in this relationship.

I wouldn't if I were you. Heard of 2 such cases from friends, ... even after break up, still got part 2 ... off .... part 3 ... off. Like Vietnam war

illusionerx · #20 13-01-2014, 07:49 PM

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To me, I don't think the issue is whether your girl is a PRC or not. Your description of her character is simply, a young girl who needs lots of attention. A young girl who has low esteem (ok, not enuf confidence about herself on looks, her maturity etc).

If you feel bogged down with her kind of hot-cold behaviour and as you mentioned you have not even started on a sexual relationship with her, my advice is best to let her slide out of your life. If you truly love this person, you would have been able to put up with her 'little missus' behaviour, you would be the one chasing after her 24/7 and spend every waking minute just thinking about her.

This is the beginning of your relationship, the honeymoon period and you are not even excited about the relationship. These are red flags, walk away. My thoughts if you care to know? No regrets

Just move on and don't look back.

Yes, i love her at the first place and i treat every relationships seriously. However, she is started giving problem into this relationship when we just got started just a week or two only. I can tolerate a hot-cold behaviour if and only if after 3-6 months, but we just started this relationship only and she already throwing tantrums like nobody business.

demon|ord · #21 14-01-2014, 01:57 AM

er... If it's me, I'd say its a no-brainer decision. Now already behave like a crazy woman, treat u like dog, if u get married, den seriously, GOOD LUCK..

I feel kinda sad for TS cause sg men look for china woman cause they treat u like KING (before marriage), some will continue treat u like king after marriage, some will treat u like shit and eventually go for divorce. TS's china gf treat him like shit from the start, can imagine after marriage?

BowBow · #22 14-01-2014, 05:53 AM

It's just going thru a process of of r/s. If you cannot accept the other party behavior an they couldn't change, then move on. Realizing now is better than after your had ROM and applied for house etc...

Comparing will never end ... For more information on PRC ladies, read other threads and you will find out more ...

illusionerx · #23 14-01-2014, 09:47 AM

Thanks for the kind reply . I really appreciate it. FYI, I actually used about 2.5 weeks and we got into a relationship. If U guys interested maybe I can recommend you to her and we can put a FR in this forum. Just a suggestion. Haha.

horny4life · #24 14-01-2014, 11:06 AM

I would say TS must really think about the girl situations. Although the girl mayb rich, have you gone and see it for yourself? Maybe she is really rich, maybe she is not. dont use photos which is not realistic.

how do you feel about her? do you think she is really in love with you and are you to her? does she care about you? like when you are sick or lets say when you send her home, does she tells you like be careful on your way home or call or message me when you reach home etc. little movements can show if she is into you anot.

she is lonely here perhaps because she is away from her home. she may have seen alot of couples around her and she is yearning for one, if you feel you are really into her, i would encourage you to really take your time to see if she is really the one for you.

My experience is quite similar with yours but i really enjoyed it. and now we are happily together for 2 years plus. sometimes she lapsed back to asking me by comparing her and my ex wife but i tell her not to compare unless she enjoys comparing myself with her ex bf too. after sometime, she shuts up. you have to really spend time explaining to the girl. she may seems childish but if she is really the one for you, you really have to spend time on it.

Cheers. feel free to pm me if you want to know more about my situation.

illusionerx · #25 14-01-2014, 03:18 PM

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Originally Posted by horny4life

I would say TS must really think about the girl situations. Although the girl mayb rich, have you gone and see it for yourself? Maybe she is really rich, maybe she is not. dont use photos which is not realistic.

how do you feel about her? do you think she is really in love with you and are you to her? does she care about you? like when you are sick or lets say when you send her home, does she tells you like be careful on your way home or call or message me when you reach home etc. little movements can show if she is into you anot.

she is lonely here perhaps because she is away from her home. she may have seen alot of couples around her and she is yearning for one, if you feel you are really into her, i would encourage you to really take your time to see if she is really the one for you.

My experience is quite similar with yours but i really enjoyed it. and now we are happily together for 2 years plus. sometimes she lapsed back to asking me by comparing her and my ex wife but i tell her not to compare unless she enjoys comparing myself with her ex bf too. after sometime, she shuts up. you have to really spend time explaining to the girl. she may seems childish but if she is really the one for you, you really have to spend time on it.

Cheers. feel free to pm me if you want to know more about my situation.

To be honest, i couldn't judge by myself whether she is in love or care about me. What i can say she only care about herself and she wants the world revolves around her. I could sacrifice my time but to be 24/7 talk to her and care about her will be difficult for me to commit. But she never message or call or care about me , i am always the one message her to like how is her work or have you eaten. The only time she calls me will be wanting someone to talk to her and chat with her because she is lonely. Btw, i live in Tampines and she lives in Lakeside.

Luyao · #26 14-01-2014, 03:43 PM

Just forget it and move on..you are on a sure lose relationship..the day she find someome better...you are history..anyway you are already a "half-history" as you describe yourself as above...not worth your while..forget it and move on..you deserve better

hubber27 · #27 14-01-2014, 04:05 PM

She not worth your time and effort. Just a bitch. Forget abt her.

illusionerx · #28 15-01-2014, 04:16 PM

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Just forget it and move on..you are on a sure lose relationship..the day she find someome better...you are history..anyway you are already a "half-history" as you describe yourself as above...not worth your while..forget it and move on..you deserve better

Thanks Dude!

Botakhead · #29 15-01-2014, 05:31 PM

Share her with samsters here, we test drive for you to find out what you've been missing, ok? Drunk , sure don't take advantage larh, but 2 and a half weeks, just kissing and hugging? No chance to even rubba rubba?

This kind of short time is not considered love love r/s, more like puppy love type of crush. If really wanted to go into r/s, much more understanding needed to be involved rather than she's from a rich family etc, but look like a wild girl attitude problem lehz.

You gif up, people will carry on for you de, dun worry too much, where there are girls, there'll definitely be r/s problems one. Your next move is to try and bonk her since she wants to cling back and still show atas attitude, no harm giving it to her.

ljdevil · #30 15-01-2014, 10:32 PM

The moment u mentioned prc...the first thought that came to my mind was, "liao lor...". Haha prc are nvr easy to deal with unless u have the spare cash and time to torture urself with keeping one as your "hobbies". I've seen prc girls just switch sg boyfs as though they are changing shirts, so yah...it happened to one of my close family members and in the end he's left nth for himself