Is it wrong to want so much sex??? - Page 2

#16 15-12-2006, 05:29 PM

I think best to see a doctor. Man are abit different when older

shaunting77 · #17 15-12-2006, 08:04 PM

Yes-man, One-Man

Schmi · #18 16-12-2006, 03:21 AM

Your problem seems rare but I believed it's not the end of the world, take it easy

KingBong · #19 16-12-2006, 04:04 AM

Think is problem discussed before. Usually the person effected will tend to blame themself, and wonder is there something wrong with them, or even the other party. There are quite a number of factors, so to tackle the problem you need to find out the cause and work on it, of course the best way is always a heart-2-heart talk between the couple. Also need to understand that everyone is different. If before u were married, and you were doing it like rabbits, and now he changed, then it shouldn't be a medical problem, unless from Day1 is like that, then may have to see the doc.
Here are some other reason I can think of:
1. stress form work, pressure etc.
2. he's having side desserts, after a 3hr session with someone else he may have lost interest after that
3. he's gay
4. depressed e.g. when he realises he is gay but cant tell anyone
5. the ambience may be wrong; lights, colour,sounds and smell have affect
6. foreplay, this is important for some guys, to get them in the mood
7. roleplay, sometimes they fantasise of a schoolgal so maybe dressing like one helps
8. food, diet may affect the libido
9. illness,not sure about other guys but if i have a 40degree fever sex is the last thing on my head
10. he doesn't know what to do, i've read of real cases when the couple saw the counsellor they realised that the guy doesnt know where the hole is...

HTH.

KingBong · #20 16-12-2006, 04:09 AM

sorry double post

asdfghjkl · #21 16-12-2006, 04:31 AM

u want him to be like a young man?? *sigh* time and tide wait for no man.. many men longed for such a drug but all they have had was only disappointment.. i had seen many such cases.. some even resulted in death..

no_faith · #22 16-12-2006, 05:13 AM

may i ask is ur husband age 49, very very very rich?
(juz curious)

bhoven · #23 16-12-2006, 05:31 AM

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Originally Posted by KingBong

Think is problem discussed before. Usually the person effected will tend to blame themself, and wonder is there something wrong with them, or even the other party. HTH.

Don't know why but my hunch is that threadstarter is not even a female and is taking all of you for a ride! So don't bother to take this thread too seriously....

ass_robber · #24 16-12-2006, 07:45 AM

Real or not real also never mind lah.... cos nobody ain't donate any $ to her. Maybe some will want to donate sperm, I duno.

Well, we can't comment about your sex life as we do not have much details about the background of you entering into married with a man that is twice your age. Maybe he is a divorcee with a couple of kids, or maybe because he has temporary impotence and is embarress to tell you about it, and thus pretend to be not interested.

Maybe you should seek some professional help, and also try going for a holiday somewhere.

good luck...

GLHunter · #25 16-12-2006, 08:38 AM

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Originally Posted by bhoven

Don't know why but my hunch is that threadstarter is not even a female and is taking all of you for a ride! So don't bother to take this thread too seriously....

yeah, bro.. i have the same feelin.. a bit dramatic..

loppp · #26 16-12-2006, 08:52 AM

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sinbad01 · #27 16-12-2006, 08:55 AM

Talk to him nicely bah. Worst case senario, if he wants u to look for other man to satisfiy ur sex drive at least you know he wants it that way.

I think there are some ppl who cannot perform but wants ur significant half to be satisfied. Moreover you are still so young, it is normal that you will want more too. Communicate with him.

broatsamforum · #28 16-12-2006, 09:04 AM

Did you test that his sex drive is okie before marriage??
Thats why so many ppl wants pre-marriage sex

orangeapples · #29 17-12-2006, 10:03 AM

Hi there, I happen to be that Dept Manager who really is waiting for you to make a move.........

... Just kidding.. Well I think that the age factor really matters. I guess what your husband probably is suffering from is diminishing libido or simply a destrudo complex? Would suggest that he can consider taking hormone injections. He can see a urologist for this and go for a proper check up. There should be a proper medical explanation for his lack of sex drive unless he is cheating on you....

Then you really should consider the allure of the Dept Manager..

cdr_bly · #30 17-12-2006, 10:33 AM

2 words. Trophy Wife. All the same you are young, you want to have great sex, that's to be expected.