Help... I think my 'hotwife' is cheating on me...

[chickenzip]

hmmm...like they always said...if you can't win them...join them...so wat the heck! Play around also lah...

[wahlau]

Bro,

The problem with many of us think we can handle certain things as long as they are within our definition. Truth is, it is usually not. That's why ignorance is bliss. What you don't know don't bother you.

Your wife agreed with you certain things but when things get hot and develop emotionally do you expect her to stop short of penetration?

Can her manfriend stop just outside her hole? She may try weakly to resist but he may not.

You initiated the crack, it's just going to get wider. Stopping it now may be more difficult than you think. Once you know how fun it's outside, I don't think your wife wants your cooking anymore (the reverse is true).

[dchew]

Originally Posted by cubeslover

Today, I received a call from my secondary friend. He is currently working as a captain in a prestegious hotel restaurant. I was surprised when i got his call. What he was about to tell me surprised me even more.

He told me he saw my wife having dinner at his restaurant with a guy last night. I frozed and thought oh shit, secret disclosed. I tried to convince him that it was just her business associate. He disagreed and told me their behavior tells him they were more than friends. He didn't want to disclose more but told me when they left, he saw them taking a lift at the lobby. He warn me to be more concern about her whereabouts.

Now the biggest concern is: My wife told me she was meeting her girlfriends for dinner last night. When i asked her again just now where she went after dinner, she told me they went for coffee at coffeebean after dinner. I did not pursue her further.

Now i suspect my wife is having an "affair" behind my back. The worst part is she knows i allow her to have "fun" with her colleagues(which she did), but why did she lie to me about he dinner? And what did they do at the hotel? Who's that guy?

My mind is in a whirl now...


For those who don't know me, please refer to y previous postings at http://forum.sammyboy.com/showthread...&page=18&pp=15

Bro cubeslover,

steady, ai zah. that's why in my previous post i suggest you let your wife controll the pace & dun pressure for progress.

The best thing to do is just keng and tell her your friends saw her last night having dinner at hotel. dun get angry, just keng & ask " i tot you say having coffee with girlfriends?" . Let her have a chance to come clean.

The most important things is you & her agreed on the seduction of other guys, so youo cannot in anyway get angry with her. I think in her mind, she's also a bit scared, confused & excited about the whole thing.

Most impt things is talk to her.

you could always tell your wife that you wish to divorce her if she carrys on her meetings? For me, i would never allow my wife to contact any guys unless i know them personally.

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by cubeslover

If you read my posts, at 1st i only wanted my wife to show off herself at her office, which is full of guys. Things happened and her colleague started to hit on her.

We had discussed about it before and agreed that she can go out with him, but bottomline is no penetration. We also agreed that she must update me everything she did and that means no lies.

we need more good people like you, so we can get more choices of wives to fuck...

[sg_boytoy]

Originally Posted by Castrol

... so we can get more choices of wives to fuck...

Oooh, Bro Castrol, very controversial remark there...

[born_mean]

Originally Posted by LengKia

well said...he reap what he sow
He lure tiger to his house. He must be out of his mind

Hotwife/Cuckolding is an alternative lifestyle...not all can stomach.

With due respect to threadstarter...you should pose this question in the appropriate thread: http://forum.sammyboy.com/showthread.php?t=38348

All the experts are there (bros liked peterpan, seedofcucky, dchew). Dun think the general public can understand and you will get more negative criticisms than constructive advice here. BM

[sg_boytoy]

Originally Posted by born_mean

Hotwife/Cuckolding is an alternative lifestyle...not all can stomach.

With due respect to threadstarter...you should pose this question in the appropriate thread: http://forum.sammyboy.com/showthread.php?t=38348

All the experts are there (bros liked peterpan, seedofcucky, dchew). Dun think the general public can understand and you will get more negative criticisms than constructive advice here. BM

Best piece of advice, Bro BM

Pardon my ignorance, what's your final wave mean?

[born_mean]

Originally Posted by sg_boytoy

Pardon my ignorance, what's your final wave mean?

Hahhahaa bro....I liken my upping of bros as waves...FINAL bcos sad to say nowadays not many deserve my WAVES. BM

[LED...]

If you still love her, talk to her (requesting her to remain faithful if she wants the marriage to work, maybe give her a time frame to clear all the rubbish).

If you dont love her, gather evidence and divorce her.

If you love yourself, give her a final countdown..... no negotiate (Stop or break)........cos there are more worthy things in this world waiting for you to devote and explore.........why torture yourself. (Suffer now and be a happier person for a long long time to come)

[D!ckster]

Originally Posted by cubeslover

Today, I received a call from my secondary friend...He told me he saw my wife...

bro cubeslover...maybe your sec sch fren see wrongly?
kinda like the Carina Lau video... there are ppl who look alike u kno...

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by sg_boytoy

Oooh, Bro Castrol, very controversial remark there...

oh yeah bro, but nothing is more controversial than the threadstarter's "bottomline is no penetration" part...

[wanker10]

Originally Posted by Castrol

oh yeah bro, but nothing is more controversial than the threadstarter's "bottomline is no penetration" part...

Now i suspect my wife is having an "affair" behind my back. The worst part is she knows i allow her to have "fun" with her colleagues(which she did), but why did she lie to me about he dinner? And what did they do at the hotel? Who's that guy?

Hi Bro,

I think the threadstarter brought it upon himself. In the first place, he should not or allow his wife to have "fun" with her colleagues. As you guys know, women are like men, they too have an adventurous side, once loosen up, hard to hold back.

I suggest the threadstarter to immediately talk to his wife & let her know that she had crossed the OB marker & stop it immediately & change job at least will not have much time with the present colleagues.

Cheers,

Originally Posted by cubeslover

Now the biggest concern is: My wife told me she was meeting her girlfriends for dinner last night. When i asked her again just now where she went after dinner, she told me they went for coffee at coffeebean after dinner. I did not pursue her further.

Now i suspect my wife is having an "affair" behind my back. The worst part is she knows i allow her to have "fun" with her colleagues(which she did), but why did she lie to me about he dinner? And what did they do at the hotel? Who's that guy?

1) Your sec sch friend, the restuarant capt dude, how trustworthy is him? Think carefully, any motive for him to lie to you?

2) If your friend is trustworthy and there is no incentive for him to lie to you, good luck to you. You've just open a pandora box, it will be almost impossible for thing to go back to the "sweet old days". Be brave and face the cold hard facts, do you really need us to tell you why your wife lied to you? You know the answer as well of we do. Now is a matter of how to mend the situation, if not how to minimise your losss and pain. Be prepared for the worst, in an event of divorce, what to do? Divert your liquid asset to someone you can trust, dont leave any trace( no bank to bank transfer, use cash). When you're ready, confort your wife and corner her into confession. Stop your silly game of allowing her to seduce other guys would be a good start. Then comes the most difficult part, how to trust her again. You 2 will have to work this out.

[cubeslover]

Thanks for all your feedbacks. Im glad to get so many advices.

I know its a dangerous move on my part allowing my wife to flaunt herself at work. Its even more dangerous letting her go out with her colleague. But im really turned on by all the hotwives stories and FRs. So much that i want to experience it myself. But i cant overcome the penetration part, which means i still can accept flirting and petting, but strictly no sex(maybe until im emotionally ready).

Whereas my friend has no reason to lie to me and he has no problems regconising my wife. Thus i trully believe what my friend has told me.

Last night i checked on her hp and found some sms between her and her colleague. Nothing much except for some goodnight msg. Her behavior hasn't changed much though.

Tonight she's going out with her friends again for her girls night out. I tried to ask where they will be but she told me things havent firm up yet. I feel like going to tail her. Should i?