Huge disappointment!

[OPTIMUSPRIME]

thanks guys, i'm not white, black or brown...slight tan that's all!

anyway i think i get it now, could be three things:

1. it's my approach, i might just look a bit foreign so they don't like me

2. i don't exactly look indian/bangladeshi, but could be mistaken for one i guess

3. could be mistaken as a european, hence they think i might be a bit rough

how do you say "don't worry, i'll be gentle?" in mandarin?

[mebirdie]

Originally Posted by OPTIMUSPRIME

thanks guys, i'm not white, black or brown...slight tan that's all!

anyway i think i get it now, could be three things:

1. it's my approach, i might just look a bit foreign so they don't like me

2. i don't exactly look indian/bangladeshi, but could be mistaken for one i guess

3. could be mistaken as a european, hence they think i might be a bit rough

how do you say "don't worry, i'll be gentle?" in mandarin?

If you said "don't worry, i'll be gentle?", they will even more worried.
This phrase means that you are SM all the while but this time you will be gentle.

[0939]

Originally Posted by mebirdie

If you said "don't worry, i'll be gentle?", they will even more worried.
This phrase means that you are SM all the while but this time you will be gentle.

Why dont you tell us your race? I'm curious?

[OPTIMUSPRIME]

Originally Posted by 0939

Why dont you tell us your race? I'm curious?

some things should remain a mystery 0939, otherwise where's the fun?

[OPTIMUSPRIME]

Originally Posted by mebirdie

If you said "don't worry, i'll be gentle?", they will even more worried.
This phrase means that you are SM all the while but this time you will be gentle.

good point dude, not the best...will immediately put someone off - think i may take up some offers from the guys here to get help with the initial contact!