Wife decides to become a FL

[mygirly]

Ironically, u r not affected by ur wife to being a fl but to why u not feeling angry or jealous?

[sexlance]

Actually, i dont know myself. Is it because i love her? Or is it because i want to protect my son? I dont want him to grow up without his mother by he's side.

[sexcision]

Originally Posted by sexlance

Actually, i dont know myself. Is it because i love her? Or is it because i want to protect my son? I dont want him to grow up without his mother by he's side.

Or maybe you had been subconsciously conditioned yourself all these years in preparation for this, given that she was once from KTV and not some village girls?

[newfoundland]

Originally Posted by funboi

Paiseh to say this. 7 years together? Now she how old liao still got that look? How long more can she be FL wor working where sia and can charge how much per session.

Eventually her market will die off.

Exactly what I was thinking too.
If you marry a working lady and you cannot provide her then there will be good chance she goes back to her old line.

[waukesha]

Originally Posted by sexlance

Actually, i dont know myself. Is it because i love her? Or is it because i want to protect my son? I dont want him to grow up without his mother by he's side.

What happened if son found out about his mother is a FL when he grew up?

[mister man]

Originally Posted by sexlance

Actually, i dont know myself. Is it because i love her? Or is it because i want to protect my son? I dont want him to grow up without his mother by he's side.

Sorry to hear... I think she don't really mean much to you anymore. Maybe you just don't have the strength for changes. There are many issues here, your boy, your family, money and sex. Need to ask yourself what's most important for the long term.

[wombu]

Originally Posted by waukesha

What happened if son found out about his mother is a FL when he grew up?

I was about to ask this.

[oxcai]

Originally Posted by funboi

Paiseh to say this. 7 years together? Now she how old liao still got that look? How long more can she be FL wor working where sia and can charge how much per session.

Eventually her market will die off.

Fully agreed with you on this bro.

[mogibecrod]

wat e reason she wan to go back ?? and how come u can lun ?

[otamay]

Originally Posted by sexlance

From what i know, she blames me for asking her to go back to work and let other ppl dispise her. For causing her mental illness(yes, she really say she have mental illness). Then she says this is her karma which she needs to pay.

Your wife must be feeling very sad because you managed to get out of the ktv by marrying you.
But now she is back to square one before marriage, therefore what she does not is to spite you to make you regret for not holding her back.

[oxeso]

Maybe ur wife found out u still chiong ktv n call chicken, so she 投其所好.. become 1.

[TheGreatOne]

If she is adamant about going back to her previous line then I supposed nothing you say can persuade her otherwise.

Another thing is she seems to be trying to guilt trip you for landing her in this impending predicament which I personally think is bs.

Nobody force her, she is doing on her own accord. So now you need to either let her do that and risk getting your face thrown if this comes to light or you can simply cut her loose now and start your life afresh.

[bignehneh]

Seriously I agree with a bro. Their 1 day pay is like $1000-5000. Only top doctors/ lawyers earn that sum. To earn that, how much hard work did they put in since primary school.

For KTV/ WL, they nua all the way although some may have other stories. During that short span, they sing, let u squeeze boobs etc for a sum. Some WL open leg for 15 min to get $100. Not forgetting ppl give them expensive girls. I ever know someone who give them gold jewelry.

If you are not a multi millionaire and you marry a KTV/ WL, you feel the pressure. Worst if your pay if $5k/ month. That is when you will be very stress

[ibanezjem555]

Yes, please don't let her put guilt trip on you in any circumstances. You offered a line to come out of KTV line. She got to know that it ain't as lucrative outside.

Even if she thinks that it is not as good with you in marriage, remember that she has to make it work as well.

If she returns back to FL, you cannot be blamed. I can see there are many dimensions to this issue, son etc..

Need to ask if you still have feelings for her..

[bignehneh]

Originally Posted by ibanezjem555

Yes, please don't let her put guilt trip on you in any circumstances. You offered a line to come out of KTV line. She got to know that it ain't as lucrative outside.

Even if she thinks that it is not as good with you in marriage, remember that she has to make it work as well.

If she returns back to FL, you cannot be blamed. I can see there are many dimensions to this issue, son etc..

Need to ask if you still have feelings for her..

If you are multi millionaire, will u marry a whore? A Jap AV/ Hong Kong cat 3 actresses maybe. Why go for a typical KTV/ ML?

If you are a normal working class, kudos to TS who offer a lifeline to her. She have to align expectations like staying in hdb/ cheaper EC and settling for MRT/ Jap/ Korean car....Also cannot expect u to feed her whole village