need some help

[hallehluya]

hi this post might not seem interesting to the people here but since you guys should have more experience in handling girls i believe this is the right place to post my questions.

i am a boy who broke up with my ex-girlfriend (girl A) 3 years back when i was sec 3. we were together for about a year. the reason we broke up was because i liked another girl (girl B). i told A about my feelings for B as i did not want to two-time her. before we broke up, i have not confessed to B about my feelings. A appeared very nonchalant and did not seem to be too bothered by my confession and she said that actually she liked another guy while being together with me too. so she wished me luck.

after a few months (cant remember about 2 months), i got together with B. at this time, A started making trouble. she got her friends to harress me and threaten to beat me up. all her friends were not any good, i have advised her to steer clear of them when we were still together but she did not listen to me. her friend's boyfriend, which was a gangster at that time, got his lackies to come and threaten me. i did not know her reason for doing that because she said she seemed to accept the break up with peace. she also got detained a year in her sec sch bcos of her bad grades. she attributes all that to me (blames me for everything that happened to her)

i ignored her as much as i can and managed to stop all the harressing by talking to her tuition teacher (we were in the same tuition class). so she stopped the nonsense for a few years.

but recently she has started to badmouth me openly on her blog, calling me a jerk etc. she has also spread some nasty rumors which are totally untrue to her friends saying things like i wanted to go back to her after i broke up with B. and her friends are spreading this to other people in my polytechnic. so i have quite a bad reputation now because of her.

i feel so wronged. all my friends ask me not to bother about it too much but it just cant be gotten off my mind. is there anyone else with similar problems? anyone who can help solve my problems? i know it's a long post i am just too sick of this to let it go.

[Orgasmic]

my advice for u is to study very hard, get 8 A for your o levels and go into uni and set up a business and earn $10k a month and drive big car and stay in big house or condos.

by that times, u will choose gals and not the other way round. but when u reaach that stage, u will not want to choose gals to settle down but fuck around. why settle with 1 when 1000 or more are rotated to suit your needs?

Originally Posted by hallehluya

hi this post might not seem interesting to the people here but since you guys should have more experience in handling girls i believe this is the right place to post my questions.

i feel so wronged. all my friends ask me not to bother about it too much but it just cant be gotten off my mind. is there anyone else with similar problems? anyone who can help solve my problems? i know it's a long post i am just too sick of this to let it go.

This is very common for teenage puppy love .... talking bad about the person who dumped you... whatever it is, ignore all this .... y dun u just concentrate on studies ...

[chickenzip]

u are still very young...study hard, get a cert/degree, get a good job and earn more $$...this kind of kid's affairs will die off with passing times...

maybe 10 years later, when u look back...your ex and those friends of hers would be struggling to fill their bank a/cs and you are jetting to Europe for hoildays every year.

[louis2002]

Originally Posted by Orgasmic

my advice for u is to study very hard, get 8 A for your o levels and go into uni and set up a business and earn $10k a month ........ will not want to choose gals to settle down but fuck around. why settle with 1 when 1000 or more are rotated to suit your needs?

听君一析话好比饱读十年圣贤书

I now than regret not putting in more effort during my studying days.

Haizzzzz

[stephan]

U still in holiday? no need study meh? U no need any help, just ignore her will do.

[block11]

its best to remain a virgin until you get married.... you will avoid such problems

[Ah Dac]

With so many temptation, think tough lar!!

Originally Posted by block11

its best to remain a virgin until you get married....

[(o)(o) Tuner]

This is a common problem for school teens nowadays. Like one of the bros said, for your own sake give up all the relationships and study hard. Find a good job or even setup your own business, make lotsa $$$. Buy a private property and a flashy car. By then, gals will come to you.

[techienator]

like the few suggestions made by some of the bros here..

concentrate on your studies first.. when love wants to hit you again, you want to run also cannot run away.. main thing is to lead a happy life of your own.. those who know you will understand the real situation.. dun let this gal drag you down with this.. everything will be forgotten with time..

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by hallehluya

but recently she has started to badmouth me openly on her blog, calling me a jerk etc. she has also spread some nasty rumors which are totally untrue to her friends saying things like i wanted to go back to her after i broke up with B. and her friends are spreading this to other people in my polytechnic. so i have quite a bad reputation now because of her.

bro maybe you have to go overseas to study. what to do? so many problems, only the italian mafia can help you.

[_AXL_]

Originally Posted by hallehluya

but recently she has started to badmouth me openly on her blog, calling me a jerk etc.

TS, if there is not a certain element of truth in her accusations, u wouldnt be bothered lah... just continue to sleep well lah. if people who really want to know the truth, they will come to u to ask your side of the story. for those who want to believe what they want to believe after hearing only her side of the story, well... u cant cure their stupidity if they want to remain that way, right?

so what is it that u cant take lying down???

[Slaver29125]

Originally Posted by Orgasmic

my advice for u is to study very hard, get 8 A for your o levels and go into uni and set up a business and earn $10k a month and drive big car and stay in big house or condos.

by that times, u will choose gals and not the other way round. but when u reaach that stage, u will not want to choose gals to settle down but fuck around. why settle with 1 when 1000 or more are rotated to suit your needs?

If only I was given such advice when I was still studying... :P

[Midnightiger]

Originally Posted by hallehluya

hi this post might not seem interesting to the people here but since you guys should have more experience in handling girls i believe this is the right place to post my questions.

i am a boy who broke up with my ex-girlfriend (girl A) 3 years back when i was sec 3. we were together for about a year. the reason we broke up was because i liked another girl (girl B). i told A about my feelings for B as i did not want to two-time her. before we broke up, i have not confessed to B about my feelings. A appeared very nonchalant and did not seem to be too bothered by my confession and she said that actually she liked another guy while being together with me too. so she wished me luck.

after a few months (cant remember about 2 months), i got together with B. at this time, A started making trouble. she got her friends to harress me and threaten to beat me up. all her friends were not any good, i have advised her to steer clear of them when we were still together but she did not listen to me. her friend's boyfriend, which was a gangster at that time, got his lackies to come and threaten me. i did not know her reason for doing that because she said she seemed to accept the break up with peace. she also got detained a year in her sec sch bcos of her bad grades. she attributes all that to me (blames me for everything that happened to her)

i ignored her as much as i can and managed to stop all the harressing by talking to her tuition teacher (we were in the same tuition class). so she stopped the nonsense for a few years.

but recently she has started to badmouth me openly on her blog, calling me a jerk etc. she has also spread some nasty rumors which are totally untrue to her friends saying things like i wanted to go back to her after i broke up with B. and her friends are spreading this to other people in my polytechnic. so i have quite a bad reputation now because of her.

i feel so wronged. all my friends ask me not to bother about it too much but it just cant be gotten off my mind. is there anyone else with similar problems? anyone who can help solve my problems? i know it's a long post i am just too sick of this to let it go.

After reading through your post a couple of times, I cannot find any sex elements for discussion.

Your kind of problem, should go to those Aunt Agony type or maybe your own parents can give better advices.

My 2 cents worth.

[t123]

will the threadstarter go to priest for confession? I assume you catholic based on your nick. typical qiong yao story, a like b who likes c who likes d but d is blah blah blah. since you made your choice live with it.