To bonk or not to bonk

beck7777 · #1 24-01-2006, 12:52 PM

Your best female friend.. she is upset... find you for comfort... you know she will let you bonk if you want to... but risk losing a best friend...
so to bonk or not to bonk?

wingnut · #2 24-01-2006, 01:05 PM

thin line which I guess most of us have looked at, tempted to cross along the way. when friend is down, she's emotionally vulnerable. when you comfort her, it's usually in close proximity, her touch, the scent from her hair, she in her stupor perhaps....creates the "oppotunity". but am quite proud that i have yet crossed the line. friends are hard to come by. bonks are readily available. a moment of lust and folly may make things awkward in the future. perhaps that i am a sentimental f*%k that cherishes friendships thus even if its a sure bonk..also never. well i speak for myself, based on my past experiences. perhaps for some brudders here, situation may be different. sex after consoling may not stem from lust. perhaps for some, it maybe the beginning of something nice that adds onto the friendship.

papasan_688 · #3 24-01-2006, 01:17 PM

[ friends are hard to come by. bonks are readily available. a moment of lust and folly may make things awkward in the future. perhaps that i am a sentimental f*%k that cherishes friendships thus even if its a sure bonk..

Well said bro, never be much more true than your statement.

BatistaSG · #4 24-01-2006, 01:33 PM

Jus a slight deviation to the earlier question. What if this best friend of yours do have a liking in you? Will you bonk?

newby010 · #5 24-01-2006, 01:40 PM

Bro beck777,

of course DON'T bonk! female BEST friend wor... bonks come and go, but really good friends, let alone BEST friends, are few and far in between. cherish yr friendships.

on the other hand, IF she's the one who initiates it, then i'd say it's a fair judgment call...

how much do u want it, how different will yr friendship be afterwards, etc...

cheers,
NB

aikoN79 · #6 24-01-2006, 01:41 PM

no, dun bonk.

but if at that point of time she agree to be ya gf, then ok to bonk. and u be her bf and then hubby till "as long as heaven and as old as earth".

if only friend and u dun wan a R/S with her, dun bonk.

newbadass · #7 24-01-2006, 01:59 PM

Yes, it's a sure bonk.

But will she hate you in the morning for taking advantage of her emotional vulnerability? Different guys see it differently. I know some guys who "got advantage, just makan". And other guys have more pride than that.

End of the day, there's no right or wrong. It all depends on where your bottom line is, and what you really want.

Mr Canon · #8 24-01-2006, 02:03 PM

Bonk 1st, talk later.....just kidding, as many so call best friends do have some likings to each other, it should be all right to go 1 step further.

YummyBear · #9 24-01-2006, 02:47 PM

For me sure bonk. Thats how Good Bonk buddies come along right??? Can talk like good friends and can bonk like lovers. Its fantastic. But I guess different people got different versions of how they should be. Bottom line is be happy, and I am happy when bonking.

BigGuy · #10 24-01-2006, 02:47 PM

my experience.......just bonk......females mayb emotional.....but they no WL.....no feeling and comfort level they will NEVER let you bonk.

been there and done that.....

BG

darts · #11 24-01-2006, 03:06 PM

Hi Beck7777,

To bonk or not to bonk that is the question, however i belived you oredi have the answer, which really depend whether r both of u r single or married, if both r single why not bcos who knows u both r subconscious is in love with each other bcos to be best friends u two must hv understand each other very well so why not give it a try, provided you really made her feel loved in that moment.(remember to make love not just to bonk her mind out)

best of Luck & Happy LNY

dt3305 · #12 24-01-2006, 03:27 PM

Let me share my experience with you.

I had a great pal...she broke off with her bf and was drinking...ask me to fetch her as she say she don't feel safe with the company she is having(actually her male collague)...end up we talk in the car and I gave her my shoulder to cry on...she initiated kissing me...I stop her and say it is not right but she say its ok...end up we had up to 4 bonk that night...last one was when I sent her home...my legs were weak after all that...called her the next day and guess what she say...thanks for everything...it was great but forget it ever happened...she just need the bonk for closure of her failed relationship...in short she needed the sex to fill her emotional vaccum...I attended her wedding day some years later and she whisper into my ear..."you are still the best in bed"...knn...and the groom was next to her...haha...

another was a female M'sian colleague...we were drinking at a pub and she was relating to me how her bf treated her badly..i sympathise with her..next thing we started kissing and ended up in hotel 81...it was one of the best bonk I ever had...as she had a body to die for...next day she pretended nothing happens...she is still my colleague today although in another subisdiary company...she is now also married but each we got chance to meet, I would tease her by staring at her asset and she will gave me a CFM look...knn...

both incidents I have no regrets because firstly I do not know their bf( and so I did not betray them) and also I did not use the emotional trap to make the gal have sex..so now that I am married, I watch out if any female friend suddenly ask me out for drink saying they are feeling down...not all gals will react the same after the bonk...

so guys, lesson is, when your gf or wife is down, be careful...some woman just need a "quick fix"...so watch out if she starts going out with her 'friends' when you neglected them or after a bad quarrel...just my 2 cents worth...gals reacts the same as we guys, just that they ask someone they knew or trust but we prefer paying...calling WL..

#13 24-01-2006, 03:34 PM

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Originally Posted by aikoN79

no, dun bonk.

but if at that point of time she agree to be ya gf, then ok to bonk. and u be her bf and then hubby till "as long as heaven and as old as earth".

if only friend and u dun wan a R/S with her, dun bonk.

what happen that girl is Na Na and she finds you for some comfort...will you bonk???

beck7777 · #14 24-01-2006, 04:16 PM

to the bro who zap me regarding this topic... pls name urself n tell me why... i dun mind getting zap but i hate ppl who zap but no balls to tell me who u r and reasons...

and thks to all the bros who post here... well i did nearly bonk a frd but damn glad i did not....

ace_rc · #15 24-01-2006, 05:02 PM

IMHO bonk first....maybe she will become your sex buddy provided she like ur skill, Anyway like some brother say, after bonking she might call and say thanks for everything.