some pregnant problem here

[nousername]

just recently last week did it with a girl.. no string attached, just purely ONS.
like 1 week plus ago. now she comes back and tell me she's pregnant.
but we did it with protection.. she even show me the kit with a + and what doctor letter and stuff..

if abortion.. i have to forge out $800? half half with her.
while we were outside she took my handphone and kept in the bag and dont wanna give me back.
and insist that i pass her the money then she give me back my handphone.
she insisting to have a item from me to be safe? either my IC or handphone.
but in the end i took back my hp..
she is with her friend of course.. the friend doing most of the talking to me?

i some sort think they are scaring me and scamming me off my $$

what should i do?

1) she have the doctor referral letter, and the kit with a +
2) only 1 week plus after we did it, can see the baby?
3) could it be mine? gonna go for a DNA check..

[Tai_zi21]

Originally Posted by nousername

just recently last week did it with a girl.. no string attached, just purely ONS.
like 1 week plus ago. now she comes back and tell me she's pregnant.

what should i do?

1) she have the doctor referral letter, and the kit with a +
2) only 1 week plus after we did it, can see the baby?
3) could it be mine? gonna go for a DNA check..

1st i thank you for making my day having a gd laugh

Ok now back to ur ques... u how old huh my friend? last week fuck the gal... this week she know it ur baby liao... ur sperm got so power huh? haha i thought min 2 months then will show the baby 1?

could it be ur baby? i think toto 1st prize ur still possible rather than u believe u make her pregant...

LOL

[nousername]

Originally Posted by Tai_zi21

1st i thank you for making my day having a gd laugh

Ok now back to ur ques... u how old huh my friend? last week fuck the gal... this week she know it ur baby liao... ur sperm got so power huh? haha i thought min 2 months then will show the baby 1?

could it be ur baby? i think toto 1st prize ur still possible rather than u believe u make her pregant...

LOL

no problem bro..
hmm, my age is 18-20.. one of it lol
yes even my mum say need at least 1 month to see the baby
will go for DNA check..

[colins]

It is obviously a scam. Why take your IC or HP? Anytime she can harrass you, if you dun respond, she will switch to your friends, still dun respond, your family will be next to kenna. Only a scam artist will use threats and ransom. That's why she has to snatch your mobile to gain an upperhand. One night stand is now going to cost you 800bucks pal.

Go and meet her again, ask a friend to film your meeting down. Make sure her face is inside, best is, include her friends as well. Tape down your conversation as well. Tell her if she do not return your mobile, you will go to the police to report her for extortion with those as evidence. Bring a witness if possible and make he is a quiet type, cos he is supposed to remain silent and calm throughout the entire negotiation process.

In your mind, you will be thinking that she'll report you for rape or something, which she would down the line, if you refuse to comply. You got to think if you had left any evidence, circumstantial or otherwise, like receipts or body marks on her. It is not that easy, certainly harder to prove if you already have evidence of her extortion.

Either that, or you just pay her 800 bucks to abort her from your life. Make sure you dip your head if you ever see her on the streets again.

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by nousername

just recently last week did it with a girl.. no string attached, just purely ONS.

Haizzzz SG education is lacking the quality.... They should include Naemlo's law of sex into their education module.

[nousername]

will see how things go and update you bros on it

[fkma]

Bro,

Seem like you are a confirm cai tou.

There are several ways you can solve this issue.

Note that most pregnancy cannot not be detect before the 8 wks.

1) Offer to marry her.. She will not agree to it.
2) Offer to bring her to your own doctor to determine the stage of pregnancy.
3) Offer to bring her to KK . Cheaper there, Less than 100 buck.
4) Last, Pay her S$ 120 for FL rate..

[Megatronzombie]

It is a possibility that she IS pregnant but definitely not by bro TS. So the best way is to tell her to f**k off and yes filming the event would be good.

Originally Posted by fkma

Bro,

Seem like you are a confirm cai tou.

There are several ways you can solve this issue.

Note that most pregnancy cannot not be detect before the 8 wks.

1) Offer to marry her.. She will not agree to it.
2) Offer to bring her to your own doctor to determine the stage of pregnancy.
3) Offer to bring her to KK . Cheaper there, Less than 100 buck.
4) Last, Pay her S$ 120 for FL rate..

[Xgenre]

since it's likely you aren't the father, why don't you meet her up for another session of sex? say you want to discuss things further. given that she is pregnant now, the fear of getting pregnant isn't there anymore. when you are happy, then tell her you don't think you are the father lor.

if she wants to be cunning, you can be cunning too. denying outright doesn't seem to benefit you in anyway. If you wish to help, ask her to go polyclinic to abort lar. cheaper. maybe you can even give some good will money like $200-300.

[pewpew]

Just marry her since she claims to have your baby...

This will save u alot of troubles from your mom's nagging...

Than outside find another 1...

[Cheonging101]

One time with rubber can still kena!

Bro, your sperm donated by Superman issit? Can shoot through condom!

Even if really shoot through, 1 week for the spermatozoa to fertilise an egg to a stage whereby a pregnancy kit can show positive is a miracle in the field of medical science!

Reminds me of this movie called "Warlock 2" where this slut suddenly got pregnant and within 3 minutes gave birth to this Warlock guy. Are you Satan?

And abortion costs $800?! Wah lau eh, stay private ward 2 days in Gleneagles and done by Head of Gynae issit?

The girl is so stupid to make so many mistakes but bro TS... to believe the words of a fool... you win lah you!

Anyway, like what the bros said, compiled herewith is the steps to be taken:

1) Say you're willing to "take responsibility" to be the kid's father. No need abort.

Here, you gain 1 point upper hand on them. Now, they only have 3 choice.

2a) If her loudmouth friend scared already and come up with all sorts of "you so young where to earn money? how to feed the kid and mother?" nonsense, stress upon the fact that you WOULD take responsibility. You will take 3 jobs and get your parents to help take care of your kid. END OF STORY.

2b) They would see no point in following up and come clean about the matter. END OF STORY.

2c) They would retreat and say they would "think about it" and then run back home to counter this move.

Should 2c happen, you must make sure that you bring along a friend to film the proceedings (preferrably a silent martial artist) as they would most probably come up with the following:

3a) Bring in the muscle, i.e. the girl's brother, the girl's real bf, the friend's gangster friends & etc, to scare you into paying up. This is immediately countered by your friend's presence who is filming the scene and is also your back-up if they try to get physical. This would mean that they did not think of a Plan B. END OF STORY.

3b) Lie all out. They would tell you that the girl's parents are dead-set against your marriage and wants you to foot the abortion fee. Tell them that you do not want a baby ghost to haunt you. Tell them story after story (if you have a good imagination) of female friends who went through abortion and wake up in the middle of the night hearing the laughter of babies echoing through the room. Ask to talk to her parents and arrange a meeting. They would turn tails and run. END OF STORY.

3c) Calling your bluff. They would tell you to meet the girl's parents & what-nots to prepare for the wedding. Go ahead and tell them that you have already told your parents and they're very supportive to have you people married in the next 3 months. After the meeting, keep bugging the girl for unprotected sex every day and night (can't get pregnant with your kid anymore during her pregnancy) about how excited you are about marrying her. She'll tell you that the kid is not yours sooner or later. What's more, since your sperm so hiong, probably it would shoot and kill the baby inside her. No need abort. If not, by the 3rd month of pregnancy, you can bring her to do DNA test with her already as the baby should be formed and is enveloped with placenta liquid already. END OF STORY.

[nousername]

is it ok when we having the conversation.. i voice record down? or use video record.. like act act whole in hand but is recording.

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by pewpew

Just marry her since she claims to have your baby...

This will save u alot of troubles from your mom's nagging...

Than outside find another 1...

good advice bro. hahahaha.

[mike1304k]

TS,

A pregnancy test? So fast after having sex? A girl usually finds out she is pregnant after 6 weeks from her last menstrual period. And that is if you did it to her about 1 week or so after her end of period and within a slim window of no more than 2 days... You either hit the bloody jackpot or you are being had...

Now the question is what will you do about it? A lot of other guys have given you a lot of advice, but I think the most sane is just to go to the police and report her and her friend to them. Why? Because if you try anything else, a few things can happen:

1) She can cry rape and get her friend to be witness and you are still up shit's creek....
2) She can turn her tactic on some other more hapless guy who may perhaps even pay her.
3) You are doing us all a favour getting such pests out of the streets.

But seriously, you better protect yourself. If she cries rape, you will find it very difficult to get out of it... She may even kept the condom as evidence. So go to the cops, tell them what happened and what is happening and let them do what they can. Then if anything happens, at least you cried foul first.

Even if she is pregnant, a simple DNA test WILL prove that you are not the daddy because it is too soon to know.

[kevin3505]

tell her do dna ,if the baby if yours,u will respond .it is imposible to have hv baby or not just within one week time la