Man are not just looking for sex, but sex is a very important part of the relationship. Unless for some reasons unable to meet, e.g overseas etc. It is natural for lovers to be intimate when being around.
IMHO, for sex to be enjoyable, it has to be build on the foundation of love. Only with real love both parties can enjoy the sex. Sex is not the final goal of a relationship, IMO it is the by product of the growth and nuturing of a very intense love. When both love each other enough, sex just happens. Try giving more love
