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Originally Posted by Blim
Dear bros,
Want to get an opinion from bros out there.
I am a married individual but recently got involved with a Thai girl introduced by friends. She's young and really cute looking and we just hit it off. I have been seeing her regularly for about 6 months now and to be clear, it's not those "need money cause the ox back home is ill" kind of relationship.
I wouldn't say that I love her as I have always made it clear to her that I am married and that when push comes to shove, my family comes first. I have told her that if she finds a decent man/boyfriend, I am happy to break things off for her future.
Recently, I found out that she has been seeing someone else. Whilst I was prepared to break off the relationship if she has a bf, what shocked me was that the other person is a girl. She later confessed that she had been curious and lonely and found the company of the other girl comforting...
I really have no idea how to respond. She has been very apologetic for breaking my trust (I had always emphasized on an open relationship and told her to tell me if there is a 3rd party as I am aware that my regular absence from Bangkok may be an issue) and told me several times that she will break off with her female partner.
If it was a male 3rd party, I guess things would have been really straight forward for me...but anyone has similar experiences? Any advice/comments?
Thanks....
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Since u r married & u put family at 1st place, just ignore her other relationship. U still can enjoy her young body until she want to breakup, just dun put in too many heart feeling.