[Ronsee]

Bro Mit Mit,

First, i must 'clap clap' you for being able to control your emotions so well and also not do it with her even tho u were with her in a hotel.

To finish with just masturbating is an achievement bro. Perhaps some bros may feel you were stupid to have missed such an opportunity but looking at the situation and evaluating the whole circumstances including your feelings and emotions, u have probably done the right thing.

After reading your posting i can feel that you are a responsible person and you have a compassionate heart.

As much as i will like to say that maybe out of 10 bros in your situation, probably 7 or 8 of them would have make love to the maid.....

but i must commend you and say you did the right thing. Yes, even though maids may not be as intellectually smart as the other professionals working in SG, but they are still humans with emotions. I always feel that even if we want to have a FB or gf or whatever outside, we still need to be responsible in what we do...i believe kindness begets kindness and evil begets evil.

Whatever we do, we do not want to ruin their lives here. of course if the maid understands that this is only a fling than its alright, however judging from her messages to you etc, i can see that she is innocent and probably throwing herself 100% onto you.

Given myself in your situation i would probably have done the same as you. I would probably have tried to distance myself from her because deep inside me, i do not want to hurt her and it would be totally selfish of me to just bonk her and later ditch her and move on with my life leaving her to cry and be hurt. Honestly i cant do that.

So my advice to you is follow what your heart tells you in this situation.

Dont do things to satisfy 'NOW' and later live to regret the things you have done for the rest of your life bro.

Just a friendly advice...

Cheers
Ronsee