[yama1973]

For vietnamese, their family always come first. Dont believe? Then why she willing to work as FL to send $$ to her family. $10K to start biz for her family and they will be self-reliant? Get real, bro.

++I agree with you.

What makes u so sure they will use the money for biz or the biz will make money?? If the family run out of $$, what will they do? Obvious answer. ask the girl again. what will she do, dont give?? Dont forget, she already work as FL to get $$ for her family, so she wont neglect them.

++ I have posed this question to her before. According to her, she tried to assure me that once she get married, there is a limit to what she can do and can only send back SGD 300 / month. Having said all these, the reality is that she won’t leave her family but i just want to set the expectations right.

U think this girl dont want $$ from u? The real fact is she dont want small money from u, what she want is either big $ or the chance to stay in Sing and continue her FL work.
++ She was actually ‘married’ to a Singaporean and has to pay a lump sum to him to get to work her. But she is planning not to work anymore and to get a divorce.