[colins]

Bro TS, if everyone here believes it to be a plot, how would that affect you or even change your perception? I think some of what she said, how she acted, emotions she felt can be true, but that's why lies are so deadly becos there are some truth to confuse you. At the end of the day, it boils down to the word 'intention' - why must she say some many things to you unless it is to benefit her intentions?

If we contest on whether virginity is there or not, we would never get any conclusion. What bros say here is, you trust her too easily. But then, you've travelled twice to visit her, you have promised her many things, all these show that you are quite deep in the 'relationship'. So that kinda limit what's gonna go into your brain. Just keep an open mind bro, if not you ask those questions also no point cos if you are not accepting point of view, you ain't looking for answers.