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Originally Posted by zack06
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1) My gf already wants raw sex, and we have already tried a bit (few strokes, then i cap and carry on). My concern is, if I were to have sex completely without the rubber and pull out only at the last moment to eject (on stomach/face/mouth/etc.. ;p ), how safe is it in not impregnating her?
Any techniques or suggestions for this?
2) She prefers cunniligus (me giving her oral) and fingering her than vaginal sex. She says during intercourse, the rod does not always hit the right spot. i.e, it goes ON OFF ON OFF -.- hence she doesn't enjoy it that much.
Any one can give some advice on this? We are both not very experienced love makers  ty |
1. Pre-cum is known to contain semen which could impregnate the girl. though the chances are very low.
There are options such as contraceptive injections instead of the usual contraceptive pills. u'll need to find out more yourself. the girl just needs to go for monthly injections. not sure of the price though nor the side effects, one of my female friend told me about this, i don't see any ill effects on her body though. however i believe tat contraceptive pills/morning after pills tend to cause the girl to put on weight.
if you are concerned about her getting pregnant. consider only doing raw during the first 3 days after her period. Yes it is generally safe to cum inside a girl within 3 days of her period finishing and 3 days before her period starts. ( note: the 3 days before her period starts is slightly risky, depending on the level of the breakdown of her uterine lining which holds the egg)
WARNING: the girl's periods must be regular for this method to be truly safe and effective. particularly for the 3 days before her period part.
it is not safe to cum inside a girl after the 7th day of her period finishing.
the fertile period of a woman is from the 8th to 21st day of each cycle. depending on the age of the woman. yes, age affects a woman's fertility. the younger the girl, the easier she gets knocked up.
semen can live up to 72 hours inside a woman's body. ( if anyone has info about this being untrue, kindly correct me). even in the worse case scenario of you being in excellent health and your semen living past its "expectations. (how "strong" your semen is, is affected by your health. I personally believe that 4 days is more than sufficient.
i have practiced this method for the past 10 years of regular sexual activity and i have never gotten anyone pregnant. I personally do not enjoy sex with a rubber.
2. try to find the angle of penetration which allows you to rub against her g-spot.
a. or allow her to be on top and ride you. try front cowgirl or reverse cowgirl. tell her to find the sweet spot herself, call it pole dancing, or watever u wish to. however warn her that if you ask her to stop, she needs to allow you to pull her off, less she gets carried away while approaching her orgasm and you cum inside her or often together with her.
She can lean forward, learn backwards, or just grind. (note: the girl leaning back too much, or too forward, or grind for too long. may cause you severe pain from frictions burn caused to your manhood.) most importantly tell her to just let go and enjoy the ride, she'll know it when she finds it.
b. consider using a pillow to prop her back when u are doing missionary, closing the legs/ or pushing the feet down towards her head. u can lean back or lean forward ur whole body onto her.
c. try doggy with her lying on her stomach on a pillow. push her body down onto the pillow. or extra pillows to elevate her body. lean forward or backwards applies here too.
d. her lying on the bed missionary. move her butt to the corner of the bed and you bang her standing up. with her legs around u, or held up in your hands and also pushed toward her body, consider bending your knees or straightening them. or lean forward depending on the angle of penetration that gets the most response from her.
the corner of the bed method works the same for doggie with her body on the bed and her legs dangling from the bed. yes. pillows when applicable.
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by now you should realize, its all about the angle/depth/rhythm of penetration. experiment and try any positions you can think of to achieve it.
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Lastly remember to read her body language and see what seems to get her off the most. You're making love to your gf, every woman's sweet spot is different. some like fast, some like slow, some like certain angles of penetration, depth and rhythm. How good of a lover you are is dictated by how you read the body language and explore her body. Bad sex or unsatisfactory sex usually means there is a lack of communication even off the bed. I mean if you're already frolicking butt naked and you cant be honest, you can forget about it when you have your clothes on.
Love her, respect her, treasure her, fuck her brains out
disclaimer: the above advice is just the information and experiences that i have gathered thru my own sexperiences and research. so far it has worked for me, I cannot vouch that it will work for everyone, nor is the safe period gauge i claim 100% safe. However it has worked for me so far for the past 10 years. Please don't blame me if you're that "lucky".
( special note: for all the brothers out there and the little horny kids who come here like flies every school holiday, kindly refrain from coming inside your gf/fuck buddy/fling during the fertile period of 8-21 days after their period. Sex is Sex, i dont care if you cheat, lie, pay, seduce your way into a girl's knickers, but getting someone knocked up and ruining their lives is just fucked up.)
TS: if you have any other questions you wish to pose, feel free to pm me. I don't spend alot of time here anymore. except to check if there are any interesting threads or stories.
Just happen to come across yours and decided to share what i know. I hope my post is useful to you and the rest of the brothers here who might have learnt something from reading my dreadfully long post.
Lastly i apologize if this wall of text caused anyone's eyes to bleed.. This actually took me quite some time to type out.
Cheers and Happy Bonking.
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