[BillyBonke]

Originally Posted by fwchong

I was also in a relationship with a Thai before.

It is very very common for woman to go and work as a Freelnace to earn extra pocket money even if they a Boyfriend or a husband. This is a common culture in South East Asia Countries.

If she tells you that she is your mistress, she has already set the rules....

She can

a. date someone without your telling you the truth as you cant control her. Eventually, you have to accept that she can or will marry someone other than you.

b. Since she tell you that she is your mistress, she set the expectation that you must feed and pay for her lifestyle, study etc. You must understand that you are a tool to her of lifesyle. Once the tool lost it purpose or usefulness, you need to accept that it is the end.

c. one day this will end. You cannot control her. You must be willingly to accept that this is not a straightforward relationship.

Many of us have been through this road. We all think we can win BUT this fight is for you to find what is the best. Ultimately, the school of lessons is the BEST to teach you life lessons. For many of us, we all learn. We can advice, we can share but it is not a straightforward textbook experiences as there are too many complicated inputs. You can't control it all.

Ultimately, you walk that road yourself. Whatever that is, we hope that you will be stronger at the end of that road. It is good that you share out your experience, if it helps with you letting out the elephant of the room. Some of my friends goes into drinking and other bad habits because they beat themselves for their mistakes.

Good Advise. I do agree and have covered ground on these with her before. I do trust her. Only time will tell.