I believe its just a perimenopause issue but wife denies everything and i'm always the problem. - slowly sit down with her, show her the issue. talk calmly, dont scare her. Let her know its a normal thing and she's not crazy or what. Just need to accept it and manage it. Else everyone around her will be the ones suffering. better yet, bring her to consult a specialist on such women issues (not a mental health doctor! more like a gynecologist).
Manage the hormonal changes / swings. There are some foods she can try to help manage that. Foods rich in magnesium, Vitamin D, etc. Banana, nuts, dark chocolate. Buy for her to eat it daily and monitor her mood. See if it improves.
dont think you marry for sex only. No sex with wife, but u get to fuck young beautiful girls outside somemore with frequent business travel to escape from family haha. Its a very good deal.
anyways, whats the daily rate to book a russian escort to bring overseas?