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Originally Posted by ctan100
i dont think a girl wanna be a chicken in the first place. likely being forced by situation. of course, maybe the girl thinks that it is easy money compared to finding proper job cause can earn more and faster.
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It depends, especially in the materialistic world today. Many pple, including gals, are comparing many things, mobile phones, handbags, luxury items, etc etc. Many of those who could barely afford, may turn to this avenue of making quick $$.
With the $$, she can then buy those luxury items. Others have, she also have. Her peers that don't have, envy her, she feel proud, boost her ego.
I worked as a service staff in the nightlife industry during my teens & 20s. Back then, my family needed the extra income to fund mine & my younger sibling's education, it also partly helped to relief my parents' burden. So I didn't have much $$. The gal(s) that I liked, there were other guys also like her, those guys had the $$ to buy her gifts & expensive dates.
But I had to get my priorities right, the livelihood & education of my family is of course more important. By taking a gamble & spend $$ to chase the gal, what if she didn't like me? What if she took me for granted, as a fool? Indeed, I was lucky, eventually saw some of those gals taking the guys for granted.
In the nightlife industry, I saw even more of that, ie, pretty gals taking guys for granted. About WLs, I saw 2 groups: 1, those that do it to earn quick $$ for their family; 2, those who do it for self-materialistic purposes.
So group 1 has similar family situation as mine, we have this in common. But being gals, they have the advantage of this "occupation" to make quick $$, guys like me didn't. They said, once their financial difficulties are over, they will stop. And indeed, when they stopped, I saw some of them even tolerating their husbands' nonsense, taken for granted, even being cheated by their husbands. But all in their minds was, tolerate for the sake of having a normal family life.
Having seen this side of the society, I told myself, I rather marry a gal in group 1, rather than marry a materialistic gal. A materialistic gal may have no limits & don't appreciate what u do for her. How much I do & give to my parents, who gave birth to me & brought me up? The materialistic gals may demand more than what I do & give to my parents. Gals in group 1 has higher likelihood of appreciating life & what u give her. As long as she behave herself & appreciate, the future has higher likelihood of happiness.