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the hokkien saying, Eh sai chua guei jo bor, buay sai chua bor jo guei

translated into Mandarin: 可以娶鸡为妻, 不可娶妻为鸡

I have a friend (overseas) married a ML (also offers FJ), he was her regular customer. Immediately after marrying, she become full-time house wife, now have 2 kids. Being close enough to them, I can see that she is 相夫教子。Main point is, no time / opportunity to hanky-panky nor mess around outside.

His business wasn't doing well when they met, at one point even on the brink of failing / bankruptcy. But they stick together through the bad times.

The reason his wife became WL is because being the eldest in the family (farmers), she has 5 siblings to take care of, and with a parent who was unwell with heavy medical bills. All her income from her work goes to her family.

Having found a guy giving her the confidence, it's better to stick to 1 guy & be farked by him only, or continue being farked by plenty other guys, many unknown? Especially my friend & his family respect her & her family like any other normal person / family.

They both 互相珍惜 each other (how many girls will bother to be with a failure, near bankruptcy guy?).

My friend is non-SGP (PRC), his wife is also non-SGP, they met each other in another 3rd-party country (non-SGP), now living in the country they met.