[cbkia222]

Originally Posted by ray36

Sharing a summary of my story and some "advices" as well.

Mine is a long story but for readers' sake, will cut out many details sparing you guys the agony.

Met a thai FL early 2024, tio attracted by her beauty. Went back the next day and continued daily for the next 12 days til she go back. Initially capped FJ. 3rd or 4th onwards started to cip (learnt shes on the pills). By then already tio KC gao gao.

Started sending her little sums of money becoz smitten with her, dont like to share so stop her from working while trying to get her a legit job somewhere. Initally small sums and not as frequent. Gradually reasons like repay bank loan, car loans etc and more frequent.

Did went to her hometown, met her parents in between. Was told that for thai girls, to meet the parents meant they are serious.

Gotten a divorce shortly after when my ex discovered it. So now got licence to go all out. Sometime into the 3rd month, started going MIA, non-responsive for hours. It was at a later reluntanct trip to her hometown that i discovered she had a thai bf. Obviously she denied and cried (which man can tahan their loved) and so forgiveness was given. Fast forward 3 months later, we still go our separate ways because i discovered she still with the thai boy, even gotten him gifts with the money i sent him.

Sharing for this conclusion (your opinion may differ):
- Never ever trust them 100%. Whatever they tell you, believe only 10% at most, unless you see it, maybe 50%. But never 100%

- Never start sending them money. It will only increase in frequency and bigger amounts sent.

- Never go soft on them, wear the pants in the relationship. Once you give them leeway, they climb and shit on your head.

- Lastly, bear in mind they work as a FL for a reason. Unless you can comfortably settle their issues, then you have to live with them working in that line. For obvious reasons no men whos really in love wants them to continue in that line. But that decision will take you down the endless bottomless hole. So climb out of it if you still can.


Sad but true, my only suggestion to you is to end it early, before more heartache and deeper holes in the wallet are caused.

Thank you for sharing bro