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Old 31-12-2024, 06:02 AM
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Re: Falling in love someone outside of marriage.

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Originally Posted by RealTalk View Post
Recently met a lady and she was so charming and it felt so overwhelming like my first love and my ex gf.

I never had such feeling with my wife as I met her shortly after breaking off my ex-gf. Why we got married in the first place as her mother was rushing her to get married and back then thinking we went through so much she might be the one, but the feeling honestly was never there.

So confused right now, a part of me telling me to be rational to move on such feelings, the other irrational part of me telling me to gamble.

Have anyone been through such process before?


I met one and had a divorce with my ex-wife with my baby girl only 6 months old, to pursue my new hot and passionate lover.

Every time i think of the divorce or how she was treated with my girl, my heart aches.

So my sharing to you, at the end of the day, your newfound "love", is it worth such a gamble to risk stability with the wife?

Think of how your met and your vows when getting married, coming from one who went through these and having regrets even by thinking about it.

If your newfound is worth it all, by all means, YOLO - thats what i did anyway, but later learnt not the best decision.

Can PM me to talk as well, im all for sharing.

Cheers.