That's why when someone flagrantly makes passing judgement, especially making very bad comments on another's mental state, which is cruel... I had to ask for a more detailed explanation. And remember, there will always be another side to the story.
In this case, seems like the fella isn't a nice fella. From overstaying, to withholding payment, to making her feel unsafe, to being rude, to scolding her, to being just plain mean. Just wow... thanks bro lanrenyige for helping us see clearer.
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Originally Posted by lanrenyige
Regarding the issue with Xiao Long Nv...
On that night, she actually was about to head out to meet her friend, but the bro stayed on after the session to have a meal. (Don’t know where the pizza actually came from.) Then he overstayed for over 30mins at that point of time, before she finally said that she needed to go find her friend. Maybe the bro felt bad and wanted to send her over. Cause she’s used to walking over, so she assumed that he was walking her to the location, so she agreed.
When they were down, she realized it’s by car, she rejected but was half pushed into the car. I said half push cause she hasn’t received the payment from the bro after everything. Then when she was in the car she asked for the payment, the bro said something like, ‘you remembered? In most cases most ML would have forgotten about it.’ (Something along the line, cause I can’t remember the exact words.) Almost didn’t want to give the payment.
So came the infamous journey, where he said she started to shout and scream at him. I’ve been to her friend’s place before as well. If I walk, around 5mins and I would have arrived there. By driving, it would take around 1-2mins max.
That bro said that he don’t know the way well, but based on what was told, he got xln number from her friend. So not sure why he said don’t know the way. Maybe he don’t drive to the place often. She said he drove past the place and went further. And even when he drove back, he went past the location again. So she told him to stop and let her drop off. He started to scold her and ask her to shut up and stop shouting, when she just told him to turn into the correct road and asked him to stop. So she started to cry, when he didn't stop and scolded her. When he finally alighted her, he still stared at her like she spoiled his mood. That’s just what I heard from her. I just find that it’s important for her side of the story to be out also.
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