By the way, I do not look for 'free meals'. I believe I have shared this before, and that is be it there is chemistry or more that the MLs provided, I will always tip them and complete it with a money transaction. It is ALWAYS a money transaction. This paper that you willingly forgo is the only 'agreement' subtly to tell the ML do not cross the line of coming into my personal life. I am happy you provided something more, puts in effort and this is my way of telling you I appreciate it. Not looking for love and definitely not looking for templated service. It is the in-between the ML has to discover themselves how to make each session good. The act has to be believable. Long Nu is one of those gal that fulfils all the requirements but sadly she is not coming back. When it is completed with a money transaction, it does not necessarily means there is no chemistry etc. We 'pay' our wife allowances; buy gifts etc?
But of course with our wife there is love and thus we are more forgivable in many areas.
Find the balance and as men we are 'jian' and will want more. Some are intrinsic and when the session is over, reward them to remind them keep it up for me when i visit again.