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Originally Posted by Franco_Barsei
Manage expectations, folks.
You want good visuals, sensual, and massage with nothing less?
In a 3-set Venn diagram, you want all 3 to intersect?
That's why you get disappointed easily.
Consider 2 which are most important to you. Since the majority of these WLs aren't trained in massage, would be good to drop this component.
Note that I didn't mention attitude above as it's the baseline that all WLs should have.
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I agree with the need to manage expectations.
Take what ppl say with a pinch of salt, including mine. MRs and FRs are always subjective. It depends on what you specifically want and what you think you see, as well as the same from the other party. It of cos depends on the experience on both sides too. Call it chemistry or whatever. If the girl doesn't respond or reciprocate, so be it. She herself would know too.
I do not get envious or jealous or upset when I read or hear stuff.
If you feel both you and the other side click well aka have a good non-commercial time, and there's every reason to continue further until it's got to stop for whatever reason, then so be it.
If there's no clicking and you feel you are not getting what you want or need, then also so be it. The ocean is so big for one person to tackle and the time and money is not limitless. Count with some joy the hits you have and the misses that spare you. You could even be off form that day.
It's really a transaction tho feelings can be involved, they must be managed. Beyond time and money, I don't need to dwell on attributes (it's somewhere in the discussion forum) but so many variable physical and non-physical factors or assets are also involved. It can be as simple as being unshaved and full of bad breath that put the girl off from the get go.
If you have confidence and can break the ice easily, it's a good start to create and control the agenda for the hour. It's naturally obvious that if you speak well, are well maintained and the girl says in a very direct manner, what she likes about you physically and non-physically, then it's also a good start. Some call it Cassonava. Some call it Picasso or Michelangelo, Confucius etc. If you take charge, and it works, great. If you don't take charge and expect her to deliver and she doesn't, then the outcome is not great.
The above is common sense isn't it. Please remember the girl or girls have their own assessment about you but they will also differ amongst themselves. They are not necessarily good in assessing anyway. Who cares? Let it be. It's just a game. We just want it to be be played as professionally as possible. She can even say you're so good that she cannot take it anymore or moan close to your ears, just play with it. If enough girls say consistently sthing about you, then stay with it. If she looks forward to see you again and the experience continues to be validated, then it's telling. I'm not talking abt how much is being paid but men being men, we can get bored with one girl and want to change flavors.
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. The experience is even more hidden as an interpretation in the eyes and hands and nether parts of the bodies. The numbers or values tho 'neutral' can still lead to subjective interpretation, what more describing and interpreting the experience itself.
I think it's best to cultivate your own style and keep yourself fresh to as many good ones as possible, so that the girl will miss you when you go back to her. Better that she says it or expresses it rather than she never even say or can't even express it commercially speaking. Worst, after collecting the money first.
Peace.