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Originally Posted by Franco_Barsei
Would you tell her off during your first session with her?
I did before in a joking way, she was truly apologetic but the atmosphere was awkward after that.
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I think the key consideration is WHEN she uses it and how FREQUENT in that one hour session.
For me, once sensual starts it's a NO PHONE thingy. I don't care if the phone buzz non stop but meddling with phone during sensual is an instant red card to the ML for me. I won't tell her off, just won't RTM ever, don't care how AP or solid her skill sets.
Non sensual time I not so particular, as in depends on how the ML approach it, most will have the courtesy to explain to you while they use it BRIEFLY, I think to expect all of them to ask permission before using is a tall order, some of these MLs have their own pride too and won't like the whole ask permission thingy.
End of the day, if the ML is professional enough (especially for FIRST session, to leave good impression), they won't go overboard and won't dare touch the handphone when sensual commenced. All of my regulars, even non sensual when the phone buzzes non stop won't go and touch. Usually I'm the one who propose them to check it if keep buzzing. But even after I suggest ,some of them will just brush it off say nevermind and just continue chit chat with me. Only when I showering then I see them reach for their phones to quickly check, reply etc. These are how I quietly observe and then rate these MLs with my own yardstick.