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Originally Posted by Fakeguy

Bro, don you think i already give in a lot? And she starts to take me for granted.

I hope I am not giving you bad advice, Bro Fakeguy because my marriage also not very good to start with.

I am not asking you to 'give in'.

My first point is - Don't apologize for your message(s)

"Say what you mean and mean what you say" - if what you messaged your wife is a reflection of how you feel, then you should not apologize because that is how you feel. There is no 'right' or 'wrong' when feelings and relationships are concerned so don't apologize unless you are in the wrong.

What I meant by 'giving in' is do not continue to 'sting your wife along'. I know you feel good when you wife tells you tings like "dear, i'm sorry for what i have said yesterday. but the way you treat me, i cannot take it. why must you treat me this way?"

But remember that women, being women, they can suddenly turn around and say you are acting difficult. So, I think you have to be 'objective'.

Just remember what your objectives it - you just want to feel appreciated, not get a divorce, correct?