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What a badass hubby you have. Actually I quite understand the part where you tried to close one eye and insist on the trust because you want to keep the marriage and you have a kid.

In my personal experience, if either spouse wants to cheat and yet do not want to hurt the family, please do it discreetly and don't leave traces behind because eventually, we still want to come back to a happy home. Unfortunately for me, I found out and I'm still getting to terms.

In your case, your hubby has really taken you for granted and brought his fun a tad too far. Quite a disgrace to men but I don't wish to judge.

To find out that his gf was actually sitting beside him during your friend's wedding dinner is painful I know. It's like you know this person's existence but do not know how that something's actually going on. But sometimes things we hear may not be true. Did you hear it from a girlfriend or guy? I once had a lady friend (I'm a guy btw) tell me my gf was seen in town holding hands with another guy. I didn't know if I should believe it because this lady had a thing for me.

If you seeking advice from the forum, most will say leave the man because of what you have written. But eventually the decision lies with you since only you know how much more you can tolerate your partner.

You may want to continue to share your story so that we can have a clearer picture but hor, kindly try to paragraph it so that makes things easier to read. Your English is fine.