[nicaxo]

I'm looking for some advice regarding the scene in Tokyo. While paying for a session with a domina certainly isn't out of the question, I'm primarily looking for some kind of fetish bar where I can actually hook up with a mistress and maybe move on to a love hotel for some privacy.

For so many years now I've wanted to at least once experience a few hours with a mistress but I just simply don't seem to meet the right kind of people so I've never had the opportunity. And I don't hang around the areas where it happens so I don't really know where to look.

The only SM bar I know of is Amarcord but the staff is most likely not allowed to get private with customers and because it's such a small place, it's probably not the best place to meet people (since they can only fit a small number of people inside at once). So am I right to assume that any kind of action from going here is pretty much out of the question, no matter how well you click with the staff?

I don't know any Japanese except for the very basics and I'm probably not willing to make to arrange a meeting if it involves calling multiple times and making lots of re-confirmations since I would have too much time to think about it and eventually freak out.

Any recommendations on where I should go? The more hardcore the better!

Thanks!